Thank you for looking at what we offer at Your Catholic Marriage.
You can receive:
Pre-Marital, Marriage, Crisis, Grief
1. One on One Private Session individually or as a couple.
Is your marriage on the rocks? Don’t panic. Even if your spouse said it’s over, there’s much that you can do to turn things around. Help is on the way. Here are a few immediate suggestions.
Take a deep breath.
We know this is the most difficult time in your life, but we are going to help you come up with a plan to save your marriage and feel better right away. Marriage coaching is for you if:
- Your marriage is in trouble and you want to feel closer to your spouse.
- You are on the brink of divorce, or even in the midst of divorce proceedings.
- You and your spouse live under one roof but are emotionally disconnected.
- You’re currently separated and may have little contact with your spouse.
- There has been infidelity and/or an emotional affair.
- You frequently have the same old arguments about sex, money, communication styles, parenting, step-families, extended family, friends, how free time is spent, religion, and so on.
- Your spouse has made it clear that she or he will NOT get help your marriage
Stop pressuring your spouse to work on your marriage.
It’s natural to try to persuade your spouse to stop being so pessimistic about your marriage and to commit to working things out. However, you’ve probably noticed that the more you’ve tried to convince your spouse that your marriage is worth saving, the more your efforts have backfired. So, the first thing you need to do is to stop lecturing, pleading, crying, or pressuring, sending flowers, cards or heart-felt letters. You’re actually pushing your spouse out the door!
Know there’s a more productive way to get through to your spouse.
People who are successful in life, don’t work harder, they work smarter. It’s not that you haven’t been trying hard enough; it’s just that you haven’t been doing the right things to get through to your spouse. Your Divorce Busting® coach will help you figure out exactly what you need to do or say differently to get things back on track. Plus, Divorce Busting® coaching is effective even if your spouse won’t participate. The coaching is for you. You don’t need to ask your spouse to speak to your coach. By changing your approach, you will learn how to improve your relationship without his/her joining in. I, at some later datee your spouse changes his or her mind, that’s fine too. You coach will help you figure out the best way to avoid divorce and solve marriage problems.
Don’t waste any more time, call 813-2-7595 to schedule an appointment.
Every day that passes with hurt and anger is another wasted day of your life. Take the energy you’ve been wasting feeling hurt, devastated and dead inside and start fighting for your marriage today!
2. One or Two-Day Personal Intensives with Debbie
If you truly want to transform your marriage, visit Debbie in her Tampa, Florida office. Debbie will meet with you and your spouse from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. where you will have her undivided attention. She is highly experienced in working with people who have given up and have become hopeless about their relationships. No marital problem is too severe or too long-standing for Debbie to find seeds of hope and solutions. Her speciality is working with couples who have “done everything” without good results. Couples who work with Debbie feel that their experience has given them tools that last a lifetime.
There is another reason couples work with Debbie. When one spouse refuses to work on mending the marriage, Debbie has helped both partners to gain clarity on what has transpired in their marriage in the hopes that the same mistakes will not be repeated in the future. Although close to 50% of first marriages end in divorce, 60% of second and 75% of third marriages end in divorce. That’s because people often don’t learn from their mistakes. Gaining perspective and understanding of what has happened in your marriage can go a long way to offer closure and healing.
Additionally, when children are involved, it is essential that people learn how to collaboratively co-parent regardless of what happens in the marriage. This can only happen when spouses make peace with each other. These intensive sessions offer guidance.
The bottom line is this, regardless of what happens to your marriage, since this is the biggest and most important decision you will ever make in your life, you have to feel certain that you’ve left no stone unturned. This experience with Debbie will allow you to feel certain that you’ve done what you can to find any potential solutions to difficult marital situations. Debbie is willing to speak with you and/or your spouse to help you decide if a personal intensive is a good choice for you.
For more information about fees or regarding any questions you or your spouse might have, feel free to call our office at 813-662-7595.
Another option is to schedule a Couples Retreat Weekend in Perdido Key,Florida